November, 2016

Living a Staged Life

Living a Staged Life

A year ago, my wife and I decided to sell the farmhouse we’ve lived in for twenty-five years. While we were excited about moving into the next chapter of our life, the grown kids were less enthusiastic: our daughter’s next blog was entitled, Don’t Buy This House.   Nevertheless, we followed all the commonsense guidelines for home-sales: We decluttered our closets, removed beds and...

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Circumstantial Evidence

Circumstantial Evidence

A pastor-friend of mine once went through a series of disappointments. His favor with his followers faltered, his once fruitful ministry began to fail, and many of his former friends became his biggest opponents. And that was before events really got bad.   My friend was well known. If I told you his name, you’d probably recognize it. And his meteoric fall from favor was not due to any...

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Twin Motivations

Twin Motivations

I once had a client whose business-gifting outshined the stars of the Harvard Business Review. Yet she scorched everything she touched. Relationships went rancid, projects were poisoned by punitive criticism, and her management style left associates embittered.   We met for lunch a couple times a year for much of the 90’s. Over time, my opinion of her zigzagged from initial awe, to...

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The Starving Lion

The Starving Lion

A business owner I barely knew once phoned to see if we could meet. He was an aggressive entrepreneur, a roaring lion among his peers. Yet on the phone, he seemed different, hesitant, a bit humbler, perhaps broken. He certainly choked up a few times in our short conversation.   We met the following Friday, which happened to be his fortieth birthday. He appeared vulnerable and exhausted, and...

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